Sad News

Dear Family and Friends,
We went for our first ultrasound today and were devastated to learn that our baby had stopped developing at 8w5d and did not have a heartbeat. On Monday I will go to South Seminole Hospital to have a d&c done. We are heartbroken and grieving the loss of our child, but we thought it was important to tell you what happened.
Please keep us in your prayers.
Love, Will and Jennifer

"I didn't like the shocks."

Emily had her 4-year-old checkup today. She is usually great at the doctor's office. She's such an easygoing kid and she doesn't mind getting her ears checked or temperature taken or anything like that. She hopped right onto the scale ("Mom! I weigh "firty-eight" pounds!) and suffered through getting her blood pressure taken twice because the nurse pushed the wrong button on the machine. But then the nurse did the finger prick to get a blood sample to test her hemoglobin. Well, she was NOT happy about that. She cried, "Mommy, the poke hurt very badly!" I finally got her calm and she had a nice visit with the doctor, who said that Emily is growing well and she looks really healthy. Then she told me that Emmy was due for four immunizations. If I'd had any idea that it was going to be nearly 20 minutes before the nurse came back, I wouldn't have said anything to Emily. But when the doctor left the room I told Emmy that she was going to get another poke. I didn't want to use the word "shot" because she was already upset and I didn't want to make it worse. And that was probably good thinking, because the word "poke" was VERY upsetting to her. She immediately started crying, "I didn't like the poke! I don't want any more pokes!" I'd calm her down and then she'd start crying again. This from the child who, at her 3-year checkup, barely blinked for the shots! She just looked down at her arm, looked at the nurse, and said, "Thank you." But this year, trauma!! The poor kid was hysterical after getting the four shots. I couldn't get her calm so I offered for her to call Daddy. She said that would help so we gave him a call. As soon as I handed her the phone, she started crying again: "Daddy, I had to get four shocks. I didn't like the shocks!" The good news is that she won't have to get any more "shocks" until she's 11 years old!

Name that Baby!

Emily and I had the funniest conversation on our way home from Publix today. She asked, "Mom, when the new baby comes out of your belly, will he have a name?"

"Yes, we'll give the baby a name."

"Is it gonna be Bailey?"

"No, we already have a Bailey. I think we'll choose a different name this time."

"Well how about [mumbles something incoherent] or Julian?"

"Julian? I don't know."

"How about Bolt?"

(Trying unsuccessfully not to laugh) "Bolt is a very good name for a dog but I don't think it's a good name for a kid."

"How about Mittens?"

"Mittens? No."

"I know! Penny!"

"Mommy doesn't really like the name Penny."

"Well I like the name Penny. How about Dora or Boots?"

"I think we're going to choose a name we all like. And it isn't going to be Dora or Boots. If the baby is a boy, we already have a name. He'll be named William, same as Daddy. But we'll call him Liam. Can you say 'Liam'?"

"No."

"You won't even TRY?"

"No."

"Well you can say William, right? Liam is just the end of William."

"Oh. Liam."

I think she's still pulling for "Bolt."

The Naughty List

I just overheard the funniest thing. Emily was writing in her notebook (okay, scribbling) when Bailey came over to check it out. Emily looks up, holds her arm out in front of Bailey, and says, "No, Bailey. You're on the NAUGHTY list." Hah!! I have no idea where this kid gets it!

Cookie Decorating

Today we invited our friends Isabella and Lydia over to decorate sugar cookies with us. The girls all had so much fun! I don't think I've ever heard them be so quiet! It was really interesting to watch them decorate; I thought each girl's decorating style was indicative of her personality. For instance, Emily, who is sort of fearless when it comes to just about anything, who will try anything and isn't timid, decorated a ton of cookies because her philosophy was to just smear a bunch of frosting on there, dump on some sprinkles, and viola! Done! So her cookies were messy and creative--she had blue, green, and white striped Christmas trees, green stars, you name it. She just did whatever she felt like doing!

Bella, on the other hand, is a much more careful, deliberate child than Emily is. So she didn't decorate nearly as many cookies. She carefully spread icing in an "appropriate" color on each cookie, then added sprinkles like a surgeon--delicately and one at a time! Her cookies were beautiful and absolutely nothing like Emily's!

Lydia was having a grand old time decorating until her cookie broke. She was very upset about it and she was crying until I whispered, "It's okay; just eat it!" She said, "Okay!" and that made everything better!

Bailey napped through 90% of the cookie decorating but she was very excited to do a cookie when she woke up. She was eating the cookie and the frosting while she was decorating it. Emmy helped her with her frosting.

We also listened to Christmas music and drank hot cocoa, thanks to Susan's hot chocolate machine! It was delicious and it really felt like Christmas. What a great day!

A FANTASTIC Birthday Party at My Gym!

Emily's 4th birthday party was a huge success. I was so pleased with the many fun activites that the My Gym staff had planned for her and her friends. The kids had lots of free time to play and explore the gym, and they also got to participate in singing and dancing, a "snowball" fight, color tag, ride a spinning swing, and take a "space flight" on the zipline! Emily was dressed up and paraded around (which she LOVED), and when we had birthday cake everyone got a candle to blow out and make a wish for Emily. It was so much fun. I was exhausted after it was over but I know Emily had a super special day!

Emily's 4th birthday!

Oops--I haven't been on here in a while! We have had some fun times lately. Most recently we celebrated Emily's 4th birthday by taking her to the Magic Kingdom and having a special dinner in Cinderella's castle. Emily LOVED it. We got to meet Cinderella, and then during dinner the Fairy Godmother and some of the mice came to wish Emily a happy birthday! She got a special cake and the Fairy Godmother sang to her. We also got to watch the fireworks from inside the castle, which was like our own VIP private viewing area. Besides that, we also went on every ride that Emily wanted to do, including the race cars, teacups, magic carpets, "Philharmagic," and her favorite of all--Buzz Lightyear. She used her birthday money to buy a Cinderella gown and necklace. It was a wonderful day.

Visit with Santa

Tonight we were in the mall and as we were walking, I said to Will, "You know who's here, right? S-A-N-T-A." Emily looks up and says, "You said Santa, Mom?" LOL. I guess our days of spelling things out are O-V-E-R!

Emmy did get a chance to see Santa (Bailey, shockingly, wanted nothing to do with him), and she told him that she needed a teddy bear, because she has three friends but not a teddy bear. Her "friends" are big Jaguar, Baby Jaguar, and Puppy, who sleep with her every night. I guess she wants to add a teddy bear to the mix. Then she asked for a scooter. Santa said, "Anything else?" And Emily replied, "Mommy likes peanuts." Hah! I have no idea where that came from!

Baby #3 on the way!

We recently found out that our family will be expanding once again! Our new baby will be due sometime around July 14, 2010. We had the funniest conversation with the girls about this. Will said, "Emmy, do you remember when Mommy had Bailey and you became a big sister?"

Emily replied, "Yeah."

"Do you think Bailey would be a good big sister?"

"Yes."

"Well, what would you think of having another baby sister or maybe a baby brother this time?"

"Noooooo." (in a voice that says, "You guys are pulling my leg!")

"But what if you had another baby sister or brother?"

"Nooooooo. I already have Bailey."

"Well Mommy is going to have another baby."

"Noooooo."

"Bailey, do you want to be a big sister?"

(Shakes her head no).

LOL!

I still don't know if Emmy understands or if she thinks we were teasing her! I guess she has lots of time to adjust, though.

Halloween

We had SUCH a great Halloween this year. I think it was even more fun because Emily anticipated it so much; when she woke up on the 30th, her first words were, "Mom, is it Halloween?" We also did something special this year, which was to have our good friends and Emmy and Bailey's Mimi over to share dinner, go trick-or-treating together, and then have dessert. It was a blast.

Bailey quickly understood the concept of trick-or-treating, and I was impressed that she walked the entire half-mile long block! She threw a bit of a fit when I was dressing her in her costume, but we were able to distract her and I am so glad she wore it because she looked SO cute!! Emily was so funny; after every house, she'd run back to me and yell, "Mommy! I got CANDY!!!" She also delivered this monologue: "Mommy, I didn't like the scary things. I saw that 'skilly-ton' and it was scary but it's ok because it 'haves' batteries. So it is only pretending. But I don't like 'skilly-tons.'" LOL! It was sort of a hard year with the "scary things." There were entire stores she wouldn't enter and aisles she wouldn't venture down because of a costume, mask, or decoration that she found disturbing.

All in all, I have to say this was probably the best Halloween I've ever celebrated. There is nothing like experiencing things through the eyes of your child.

Anticipating Halloween

This morning, Emily came running out of her room--she is one of those people who wakes up raring to go--leaped into my arms for a hug, and said, "Is it Halloween?" She can hardly wait! I told her she'd have to wait until tomorrow, but that today we would make chocolate covered spiders. She LOVED that idea. We just finished making them. I saw Sandra Lee make something like this on Food Network yesterday, but I changed the recipe a little.


Chocolate-Covered Spiders
12 oz semi-sweet chocolate chips
1/2 C peanut butter
6 C Rice Krispies cereal
1/2 C white chocolate chips
thin pretzel rods

In heavy bottomed sauce pan, melt together semi-sweet chocolate chips and peanut butter. Reserve 2/3 C mixture for "gluing" and decorating and pour remaining mixture over cereal. Stir to combine. Spoon onto waxed paper and add pretzel "legs" and white chocolate chip "eyes." Coat tops of spiders with additional chocolate-peanut butter mixture. Allow chocolate to harden (place in refrigerator or freezer to speed up the process).

We also made some spider "webs" which were just balls of the cereal mixture decorated with the chocolate. The spiders were taking a while to assemble, especially with my 3-year-old helper who kept eating the pretzels and white chocolate chips!

Imaginary Friends

Emily all of a sudden has an entire cast of imaginary friends. A few days ago, she came parading into my bedroom and announced, "Mom, see all of my friends? This is Charlie and that's Neefan (I guess she meant 'Ethan' but she said 'Neefan'). See? They are all behind me!" Well that was the first I'd heard of Charlie and Neefan. Today Jolie joined us in the van on the way home from Target; she wasn't sitting in her seat or wearing her seatbelt. She was being a funny clown. But Mommy laid down the law: if Jolie was going to ride in the car, she had to sit in her seat and wear a seatbelt. Emmy assures me that she got right into her seat and buckled up, but she was still being a funny clown. I wonder how long this phase will last? :)

To the mall!

Today I had some errands to do so I told the girls I'd take them to the mall for a snack and to play a bit. They usually enjoy that and the bonus for me is that it is inside and air-conditioned (still in the 90s here in Florida in October!!) On our way to the playground, we passed the Disney Store, so Emily wanted to go in and look around. We checked out the princess costumes and shoes and looked at the toys and clothes. Then we headed over to Auntie Anne's to get a pretzel. Emmy was so sweet; she shared her pretzel sticks with Bailey and me. When she got to the last one (which really should have been hers), she broke it into three pieces so we could all have some. What a sweetie.

Then we headed downstairs to play. It was a quiet morning, with only a few young children around, so I had a seat and let Emmy and Bailey play for a while. After a few minutes a couple more families came to play, so the area where I was sitting started to get a little crowded. I scooted down a bit to make some room. Then I noticed Bailey looking for me. She was playing on this toy rocket, a huge smile on her face, and she wanted to show me that she had climbed up there by herself. Well, when she looked over to my seat, I wasn't there! I'd only moved down a couple feet, but I could see the panic rising as she looked at the faces of these other women: "Not Mommy, not Mommy, NOT MOMMY! Where's MOMMY?" But then she saw me and all was right with the world again.

There was a little boy in the playground who kept trying to hug Bailey for some reason. She IS super cute so that may have had something to do with it! Emmy goes up to him and says, "Be gentle to my little sister!" That made me laugh--if only she'd follow her own advice!

Finally, on our way out of the mall, Emmy said my favorite thing of the day: "Mommy, maybe I can find some pennies or pickles for my piggie bank!" So funny!!

Bedtime stories

Will usually reads Emily her bedtime story; he's really good at it and I like that they have that time together. A few months ago I checked out a library book called I Will Surprise My Friend by Moe Willems. Well, both Emily and Will loved it. In fact, Will has declared Moe Willems his favorite author. Now, every time I go to the library, I look for a Willems book that we haven't read yet. Unfortunately, I think we've exhausted our library's supply. So the other night Emily chose a book from her own bookshelf for her bedtime story. Then she took it to Daddy in the living room and said, "It's The Giving Tree [by Shel Silverstein]. But it's not by Moe Willems." Hah!!

Also on the reading front, Emily is doing so well learning how to read. She checked out Go, Dog, Go! from the library and when we got home, she started reading it by herself! This is a book she's never seen before, and she just cracked it open and started reading! I was so proud.

Bailey also loves books although she rarely sits through more than a couple pages. She is just too squirmy right now! But every time she disappears, it is into Emmy's room to pull books off the shelf and look through them.

Shower Time

When most people take a shower, they are alone, enjoying the quiet, relishing the warm spray, possibly planning out their day or maybe unwinding from it. Well, I am not most people. When I take a shower it is like a three-ring circus. Those ten minutes are virtually the only time (except nap time and bed time) that my children are unsupervised. I have my shower down to a science, and I am rarely in there for longer than ten minutes, but BOY, the heck that can break loose in ten minutes never fails to amaze me.

First, Bailey comes in with a toy, which she starts banging on the shower glass. Once I get her to stop doing that, she plays peekaboo with me by looking in the door, then looking in the panel right next to the door. (Mind you, this is all clear glass so it's not like she can hide behind anything.) She leaves and Dioji comes bounding in. He likes to check things out. He usually sits guarding the door for a few seconds, and then he's off again. Next is Emmy. "Mommy, can I take a shower with you? PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE?" Me: "No, you are already dressed and I am almost done." (Leaves, pouting. Sometimes manages some crocodile tears.) Then comes the really fun part. Now everyone is out of the bathroom, and I can't see them, but I can hear them. And what do I hear? Thump. THUMP. THUMP THUMP. "WAAAAAAAAA!" Never fails. Every day. I yell, "WHAT'S GOING ON OUT THERE?" Emily yells back, "NOTHING" (which she pronounces "nuh-fing"). Bailey comes back in, crying. I say, "What happened?" Bailey doesn't really talk yet so she just cries some more. Then she leaves. Emily and Dioji run back in. Emily has Dioji's toy. She starts bopping him on the head with it. He jumps up and grabs it, and she runs out, dragging him behind her. Bailey comes back in. She's happy again. I turn off the water. She starts trying to pry the shower door open. I open it, and she gets so excited like she hasn't seen me for a week. I'm wrapping my towel around myself and she's practically jumping up and down, arms raised, yelling, "Up, up, up!"

Nine minutes have passed since I turned on the water and got into the shower. It's no wonder I am exhausted! :)

Princesses

I bought the girls' Halloween costumes today. Emily has been telling me she wants to be a "cowboy girl" for a few weeks, so I got her a cowgirl costume, but she refuses to wear it because it is itchy. We've been dealing with that issue for a while; last Halloween I bought her a Snow White dress and she freaked out when I put it on her ("It hurts! It hurts!"). For the longest time after that she wouldn't even look at a princess dress. I got her a beautiful pink one for her birthday, but it's only within the past month that she'd even try that one on! So, I wasn't really shocked when she didn't like the cowgirl costume. While we were shopping, she chose several costumes but each time, I'd open the package, show her the costume, and say, "Are you going to wear this?" Her response: "No." This morning she tells me she wants to be Cinderella, but I am not buying a Cinderella dress unless she tries it on in the store. she does have some princess costumes that came in a trunk and she'll wear those because they are all "satin," but because they are designed to fit a wide range of kids they don't really fit her all that well. They are totally open in the back and just tie together (that is what she is wearing above).

Bailey, however, has no issues with princess dresses. She went CRAZY over a Snow White dress so I went ahead and got it, figuring if she wouldn't wear it, I could always return it. Well, she LOVED it. She paraded all around the house, twirling and lifting the edge of her skirt just like any good princess would do! And when Daddy got home from work, she CURTSIED. Hah! This morning as I was eating breakfast, she went into her room, got her gown, and brought it to me! She was even trying to take off her shirt so I would put it on her! So cute!

Reading

A few mornings ago I was sitting at the kitchen table, drinking my coffee and reading a magazine while the girls played together in the living room. I heard them both talking (well, Bailey was babbling) at the same time, so I went over to check it out. This is what I saw:


They were both "reading" to themselves. SO cute!! Bailey's book of choice was Once Upon a Potty, and Emily's was David Gets in Trouble.

Bailey!

Bailey is getting to be more and more fun every day. She is finally at that point where she can play with Emily (kind of) unsupervised. They are actually having a tea party right now, and aside from the table being pulled back and forth between them, they are doing really well! Emily is "cooking" and she keeps sending Bailey off to get her ingredients, which Bailey happily does. It's so cute!

Bailey is also rapidly expanding her vocabulary, or at least her understanding. Lately it's been body parts, like if you ask her where her nose is or whatever, she points to it. But my favorite is her belly. If you say, "Bailey, where is your belly?" she tickles herself! It is so cute and so funny!! She also likes to get everyone else's belly, and watch out if you have any exposed skin because she's apt to do a raspberry on it, then giggle hysterically. You can't help but laugh along.

She discovered an old photo of Mommy and Dadddy that I keep on Daddy's nightstand. It's a tiny picture, maybe 3" by 2", in a tiny frame. Well, she LOVES that picture. She ADORES it. Every day, and I mean EVERY day, she goes into my room, gets the picture, and carries it around, all the while pointing at it and yelling, "Dada! Dada!" She also likes our family picture that I have as the desktop background on our pc--she loves to point at that and yell "Dada!" as well. I try to get her to say "Mama" when she sees my picture, but I'm Dada, too. It's funny, she can say Mama, but I don't know that she ever CALLS me that.

Last night my poor baby Bailey was sick with a stomach bug that I recently had, so I was up with her from 1 until 3:30 am. She seemed to perk up a bit but I didn't want to put her back to bed until I was fairly certain the vomiting was over. So, we sat in the living room and watched this totally strange show on Noggin called "Oobi." Man do they have some weird things on at 1:30 am. But she was totally captivated, and when I turned off the tv, she kept going "Ahhhh!" and pointing at it. Then (now this is the child who is sick, remember) she goes around behind my back and yells, "UH-OH" because she wants to play "Where is Bailey?" Stinker!! I love her, love her, love her!!

This is my dog, Bolt!

I haven't featured the furriest member of our family yet: our dog, Dioji (although most of this post is really about Emily and how she plays with him). He has a funny name, or at least one that looks funny in print. His name is the word "dog" spelled out, so it sounds like Dee-oh-gee. Emmy has had a bit of a hard time with that, and she mostly calls him "Yoshi" or "Buddy" (which she gets from me, since I call him that sometimes). Sometimes she shortens "Yoshi" to "Yoj." I'm not really sure what nationality our dog is but it sounds pretty exotic.

Lately Emily has started calling Dioji "Bolt." She LOVES the Disney film, so she has decided to become Penny and our dog, therefore, becomes Bolt. She gets him to play Bolt by tempting him with one of his toys. Basically she either dangles it in his face or bops him with it until he grabs it. Once he's got it, she starts running around the house with him in tow. Our dog cannot be accused of being smart, so if you're thinking, "Why doesn't he just let go?" the answer is: because he is too dumb to think of that. So off he goes! All the while, Emily is yelling things like, "Come on, Bolt!" and "Let's go, Bolt!" When she sees me, she says, "Mommy, this is my dog, Bolt."

We assigned Emily the chore of feeding the dog, which we felt was an age-appropriate chore and also one to teach some responsibility. Well, more often than not, when I tell her to feed the dog, she runs into the room where his food and dish are, yelling, "Come on, Bolt!" Once she gets him in there, she says to him, "Are you hungry, boy? Here you go, Bolt." And then she gives him his food, one pellet at a time into his bowl (until I tell her to just dump it in there already!!). The poor dog. He's probably like, "I don't know who Bolt is but I'll eat his food if that kid would just put it in the dish already!" HAH!

As for Bailey, she just calls him "dog" which is actually a pretty close approximation of his name! She loves him and she especially loves watching him run around with her big sister.

more Disney visits

Last week I took Emmy and Bailey to Animal Kingdom by myself. We stayed about 3 hours and had fun but it was SO hot that I left before 2:00. Actually it was really good timing, or maybe God watching over us, because when I decreed that it was time to leave, we got right onto a tram, and by the time we got to our car, it had started raining. Now I don't know if this happens in other places, but sometimes in Florida, you can see the rain coming. It looks like a wall that is quickly moving towards you. Well I saw this wall headed for us when we were 4 or 5 cars away from ours, so I started running. I have automatic doors on the van so I opened them (while pushing the stroller and holding Emmy's hand!!) and as soon as we were there I tossed the kids in, ran around to the back, folded the stroller, and jumped in. Just then it started to DOWNPOUR and I mean it was torrential! But we didn't get wet!! This is just one of the MANY times so far that I am so glad we got that van! I can climb in with them and easily do their seatbelts and then climb into my seat without getting out. Plus it comes in handy for a place to sit down and eat, too!

Anyway, I told Emily I'd take her to Animal Kingdom (Daddy's not too crazy about that park) and she was really excited about it. We all rode the Triceratops Spin which is basically the Dumbo ride. The girls loved it. Then we walked around a lot. We missed Nemo--we'll have to go back to see that sometime--so we headed into the different jungle trails to see the animals. We missed the hippos somehow. I am not sure how one misses a hippo, but we did. We took the train out to the petting zoo but maybe because it was so hot all of the animals were resting in the shade, so not too much petting went on. Emily did get to pet and brush a goat and she thought that was great. Bailey just liked being able to walk around since I had to leave her stroller at the train station.

Sunday night we went to MGM with Daddy and it was fun. It wasn't too crowded but disappointingly, a lot of the attractions were closed by the time we got there. Even though the park was open until 10, some things had closed at 5 or 6:00. We tried to see the Voyage of the Little Mermaid but it broke halfway through. It was so funny, because when it stopped working, Bailey yelled, "UH-OH" but Emily said, "Mommy, that was a GOOD show!" Emily and Daddy rode the Star Wars simulator ride and she LOVED that--she said, "We went up, up, up, and then we bumped and bumped!" We also rode a Toy Story ride that I honestly never knew was even there--it is called Toy Story Midway Mania and I always thought it was just an arcade or something! But it's a fun ride with 3D effects and you control a "gun" that launches balls at the different games. The kids loved that and we enjoyed it, too. We'll go again and hope to catch everything we missed.

Emily's first haircut

Today Emily (and Mommy, too) got her hair cut. She'd never had her hair cut before. I'm proud to say she did very well. I had only the split ends trimmed off, so she still has her beautiful, long hair.

China

We just had an adorable, hilarious moment and I wanted to write it down before I forget!

Emmy just picked up the map of the US, pointed to Florida, and said, "Mommy, want to know where we live? We live here."
So I said, "Yes, we do. Do you remember what that is called?"
She thinks for a second and replies: "China."

HAH!

I wish I...

Many conversations with Emily lately begin with, "I wish I...." Some of my recent favorites:

"I wish I had a scooter like Penny. Then I could ride with Bolt!"

"I wish I had a fishing pole!"

"I wish I was in the snow and I could make some footprints!"

"I wish I could go there (somewhere she sees on TV, a movie, or in a book or magazine)!"

"I wish I could have that Ariel dress."

"I wish I could do that (she says 'dat,' meaning anything Mommy is doing)."

And the best of all... I was watching something on Food Network while folding laundry and she came out to watch, too. There happened to be a commercial for something called the Neckline Slimmer (http://www.asseenontvguys.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=111) which is used to tone up the neck and chin (and looks absolutely hilarious while it's being used, I might add). Anyway, Emily saw that, and declared, "Mommy, I wish YOU had one of those! Then YOU could go like this (moves head up and down in imitation of the model on the screen)!" LOL!!

We're going to Disney World!

Well, the McDowell family is now the proud owner of 3 Disney Annual Passes, and on Saturday, July 25, we took Bailey to Disney World for the first time. Emily had been there a few times before but she didn't remember it, so it was all very exciting for her, too. We had a great time despite the 100 degree weather (well, it might have been a little cooler than that but it sure didn't FEEL any cooler!!). Emmy rode the Barnstormer rollercoaster and Bailey rode the Dumbo ride! The kids loved It's a Small World (especially Bailey, who was fascinated) and the Winnie-the-Pooh ride as well. We missed the Tiki Room this time around but it is definitely on our list for next time--I know the girls will love that.

Just wanted to share a few fun shots from our day!

"I 'berry' sad..."

Lately whenever Emily is disappointed about something, she says, "Mommy, I berry (very) sad about..." and puts on the biggest, most heartbreaking pout you can imagine! The other day she'd asked me to buy her some gummy worms at Target, and I told her that if she behaved while we were in the store, I'd get them. Well, I forgot, and she didn't say anything until I was strapping her into the car. Then she works up her pout, puts on these HUGE puppy dog eyes, and whimpers, "Mommy, I berry sad about the wormies." I felt so bad!

All this week, it's been, "I berry sad about my bed being all white" because I changed her sheets on Monday (like I always do) but I didn't ask her which sheets she wanted (and I usually do). She only has four choices but she is a girl who knows what she wants, that is for sure! Well I happened to choose the plain white sheets but apparently she wanted the white ones with the purple flowers, and every night when I put her to bed she gives me guilt about it. I told her when we change her sheets on Monday she can choose. What a stinker!

Conversations with the girls

Lately I have been having some very interesting, funny conversations with Emily and Bailey. Here are a few memorable ones:

At Chick-Fil-A, Emily, Bailey, and I were eating dinner in silence, so I said to Emmy, "What should we talk about?" Her reply? "Hmmmm. We can talk about Twinkle [Twinkle] Little Star!"
Me: "Okay."
Emmy: "Well, Twinkle Star was up in the sky. VERY high. And then she saw a diamond! And then she played for five more minutes, and then she went home and she slept in her bed ALL NIGHT! And that's all!"
Me: "Wow!"

Bailey was eating her breakfast, a cereal bar and some of those freeze-dried yogurt bites that Gerber makes. Well apparently I didn't give her enough food because she's in her high chair yelling, "'Nack, 'nack!" So I went over there and said, "Bailey, what do you want?" She picks up a yogurt thing, holds it up to me, and says, "MUH!" (which is how she says "more"). Too cute!

After swimming one day, I asked Emily if she'd like to take a shower to wash off the chlorine. She said yes and we headed inside. Once the water warmed up, she got in the shower and said, "Mommy, you have to wait your turn in line (which she pronounces "lion"). Wait there on the blue (not sure why she said blue; nothing in the bathroom is blue) line." Hah!

Bailey doesn't say too many words, but she is very good at communicating what she wants. Last night I tried to get her to go to sleep, but she was still hungry because she didn't eat her dinner. So I'm holding her, telling her it's night-night time, and she is shaking her head no. I said, "What's the matter, Bailey? What do you want?" She points to the floor and yells, "'NACK!" I put her down and she headed to the kitchen, where she started banging on the pantry door, saying, "'nack, 'nack!" over and over.

While we were swimming, I asked Emily if she wanted to play a game. She said, "Sure. I'm Ariel, Daddy's Prince Eric, and you're the Sea Witch." :(

And my favorite of all: this morning Emily said, "I love you, Mommy. You're my big girl."

More duh-duh

Emily used to call any food that she couldn't name "duh-duh." If she didn't know what it was called, or couldn't say the name, it was "duh-duh." And she would always say, "More duh-duh!" Well, I couldn't think of a good title for this blog so there you are.

We had a fun weekend. Emmy had her class at My Gym on Saturday morning and while we were there I signed both girls up for their sibling class, which is for 1-4 year olds and focuses on building the sibling relationship through teamwork! I am very excited for them to start.

On Saturday night we went bowling with our families and friends to celebrate Will's birthday. It was lots of fun, even though I was outbowled by three 3-year-olds. :) Emily LOVED it; she keeps asking when we can go back to the "ball pit." Hah! Bailey didn't really like it but then she doesn't really like anything that involves large crowds or lots of noise. She didn't get to bowl, either.



On Sunday we had a family shopping trip and I chose some new paint colors. I want to repaint my family room, kitchen, hallway, and bedroom. I'm planning to go a little darker in the family room and also a little more "mossy" green than "minty" green. I want to do some kind of beige or tan in our room and get rid of the border, too. I think it'll give our house a good facelift since it's been almost 8 years since it was painted last!

So, that's it!

Happy birthday dear Daddy...

Yesterday was Will's birthday, so we made a special dinner of salmon and asparagus with crescent rolls and salad. Emily was a huge help in the kitchen; she made the crescents and helped with the salad, and she broke off all of the stem ends of the asparagus. After dinner we served Daddy a brownie with a scoop of ice cream and Emily and Mommy sang "Happy Birthday" while Bailey clapped. Then we had an impromptu dance party in our living room: I turned on the Kids Only music channel and we girls danced around. Emily was the instructor, saying, "Now, jump three times. Now spin around. No, not like that, Mommy. Like this!" Bailey was dancing too, exactly how SHE wanted to. It was absolutely adorable and such a nice evening. Happy birthday, Daddy!

Left foot, right foot, feet, feet, feet

Well we McDowell girls had a great day today!! We went to the park and although it was hot, hot, hot, we played for about an hour! Even Bailey was climbing all over everything (so Mommy was, too!) When we got home, the cutest thing happened: Bailey chose a book from Emily's shelf (The Foot Book, actually), came over to me, sat in my lap, handed me the book and said, "Buh!" So I read it to them (twice). It was like our own little story time.

Emmy and Bailey are really starting to interact with each other a lot more. Yesterday they had a tea party together--so cute! And today they played cars on the floor--Emily has one of those "road rugs" and they were all over it.



My friend Susan referred me to a great website that Emily LOVES--I could hardly pry her away! I am teaching her to read and it is so great for that. Here's the address in case anyone is interested: http://www.starfall.com/n/level-a/learn-to-read/load.htm?f

Will is in VA tonight and tomorrow so keep me in your thoughts (although I think I mostly have this mom thing down for now).

Things that made me smile this week

This conversation:
“Oh, no! Look, Emmy, it’s raining!”
“That’s okay, Mommy. We’re safe in the house.”
“I know, but we have to drive to the pet store.”
“Well, we’ll be safe in the car.”

Where is Bailey? Where is Emily?
I’ve been singing (to the tune “Where is Thumbkin”) “Where is Bailey? Where is Emily? Where are they? Where are they? I can’t find my Emmy; where’s my baby Bailey? Where are they? Where are they?” While I do, they both stand behind me (and dance—soooooo cute!) and then at some random point one of them will pop her head around and look at me. That’s when I act shocked to see her/them. They giggle so much that it makes me laugh every time.

Emily’s explanation of The Little Mermaid
Emily is watching The Little Mermaid in the car. Since I can’t see it while I am driving, she feels that she needs to give me a play-by-play (never mind that she has watched this movie 5287 times and I could probably recite it by now). She always says the same things at the same parts of the movie. Today was, “Mommy, Ariel has to get her voice out of her and then she gets legs and she turns to a HUMAN!”

My personal trainers
Bailey loves to climb on me whenever I get on the floor, so it really shouldn’t have surprised me that when I try to do an ab workout, she is all over me! She especially loves to sit on my tummy when I am doing crunches, or to climb on my legs when I am lifting them up so she can go for a ride. And this morning Emily joined me for the workout: “Look, Mommy, I exercising too!”

Emily’s conversation with her friend, Bella
While driving to lunch after visiting the pet store, I overheard the following conversation between Emmy and Bella:
B: “Where we going to eat?”
E: “If you eat your lunch all up, then you can play! That’s the rule!”
B: “But what we going to eat?”
E: “Bella, you eat your lunch all up, then you play! Does that sound like a [good] idea?”

And finally…
Bailey walking around the house with a plastic colander from Emmy’s kitchen in her mouth! Even funnier, she knew we were laughing at her, so she kept doing it to TRY to make us laugh!

fun at Petco

So today I took the girls to Petco for a field trip with the moms' group we belong to. It was fun! They love looking at the animals (I've actually taken them to Petco quite a few times just to do that) and there was a staff member who took some animals out for them to see up close. I was a little disappointed that they didn't get to touch most of the animals--I know Emily REALLY wanted to do that. Bailey was super excited about the fish; she also loves the birds and the cats! Emily is such an animal lover that I'm sure she'd take them all home if I let her, but she told me that her favorites today were "the swimming turtles." Best of all we got to spend time with our friends! Emily said it best: "Mommy, that was a good fun day."

Afternoon musings...

Rocking Bailey to sleep for her nap is one of the best things I do all day long. There's nothing like cuddling with a sleepy baby: I hold her on my lap, she rests her head on my chest, I wrap my arms around her, and she wraps her arms around mine. In less than five minutes, she is peacefully sleeping and I have had a few blissful moments of quiet, peace, and calm. Somehow even though I don't often get to nap myself, I feel refreshed after spending those few minutes with my sweet baby girl.

It's a wonderful life!

I've been tossing around the idea of starting a blog for a while now. I think I may have even signed up for one in the past, but I don't remember where it was and I don't think I ever wrote anything! I was just looking back over some things I had written down about Emmy when she was a baby and I am SO GLAD I did because I don't remember them!! And she's only 3! SO maybe if I keep some of our stories online here, that will serve a dual purpose: to keep you informed as to what's going on with us, and to remind me when I forget!

So, McDowell fans, here's what's going on with us lately:

Will is attending UCF, working on his PhD. He is also working as a program manager at a company based out of New Jersey that has an office here in Orlando. He's also Daddy to two of the cutest little girls EVER (in my humble opinion).

Jennifer is not currently using her teaching degree but is staying home with Emily and Bailey, the aforementioned cutie-pies. She has undertaken many new tasks this summer, including teaching Emily to read and write (it's going well!!) and growing a vegetable garden (it's GROWING well!). She loves being a mommy and is excited to see the girls growing and learning and just blossoming.

Emily is 3 1/2 and very much a little lady. She is one of the most easygoing kids I've ever known. She's up for just about anything! Right now she is taking a gymnastics class and she's doing so well!

Bailey just turned 14 months and she has truly reached that "toddler" phase (tantrums and all, unfortunately). She's started talking more, too; just today she said "dog" very clearly and the other day she said "ball."

So what else can I say? We are all doing great; we're happy and healthy and just enjoying life. Now I'm off to clean some windows!